1、在懂得爱的家庭中婆媳关系无需刻意自然好。
事实上，家庭环境对于婆媳关系的影响是很大的。儿媳虽然作为别人家的女儿，因为儿子的关系，嫁过来，自然也应当成为一家人。在公公婆婆眼中，应当和女儿、儿子本身没什么两样。父母爱儿子，儿子爱父母，儿媳也应当享受到同等的待遇。事实上，一个好的家庭，相互之间的爱总是体现在平等、尊重、体谅和包容之上，当儿媳嫁到这样的家庭，要想融入这个家，也只能是用情。否则，就会破坏整个家的生态，自然，不仅仅是为婆婆所不容，连自己的老公可能都不会买账。在一个有爱的家庭中，只需要本着真诚待人，公平处事，有情有义就足够了。所以说，女人嫁得一个好婆家，还真是福气。
婚后生活中婆媳关系的六大规律
2、长辈能够主导的婆媳关系往往相安无事。
长辈主导婆媳关系，也就是说婆婆地位和身份较高，可以恩威并施。婆婆可能在社会地位、经济地位、人际关系等方面，占有绝对优势，而儿媳过门，则不得不处处尊重公公婆婆，还得处处小心在意。如果儿媳暗中不孝，婆婆可能直接批评，儿媳既使心不服也得口服才是。这种主导型的关系，媳妇自然有一个好的榜样和标准，在这种情况下，婆媳关系不一定亲如儿女，但也自守本份，相安无事。
婚后生活中婆媳关系的六大规律
3、性情相通往往创造天下最佳婆媳关系。
对于性情相通的婆媳，或是相互之间，都想搞好关系的婆媳，自然很容易凑在一处，天生就像是有缘的。特别是双方因为爱着同一个人，而变得更加亲近。双方可能结伴出外购物，共同参加一些聚会，或是健身俱乐部之类的活动，两人呆在一起，都主动为对方着想，这样的婆媳关系，虽然算不上太多，但也会存在。为何要把这种关系模式提出来，是要说明，性情相通的婆媳才是最好的。怎样达到性情相通，也当是婆媳相处中，值得思考的问题。当然，性情有天然的成份，但也有后天的，因为本性不可变，但情是可培养的。
婚后生活中婆媳关系的六大规律
4、小气才是婆媳相处受气的主要原因。
婆媳相处，本来是一家人，就怕你认为对方是外人，从而胡乱猜疑、指责，或是咒骂。不把对方当成是亲人，而是冤家，甚至是仇人，这样就会在心理上就疏远了，在行为上就缺少包容和体谅。在恶劣的婆媳关系中，我们可能发现婆媳都有过错，事实上，在与人相处中，容易受气，往往是因为自己气度不大，自然容易把小事化大，甚至无事找抽，弄得自己受不了。健康的婆媳关系，往往需要双方气度都得大一点才行，双方都能容人容物。
婚后生活中婆媳关系的六大规律
5、婆媳关系矛盾儿子往往具有协调的重任。
儿子是连接婆婆和媳妇的纽带。所以，如果儿子情商高一点，一定会在婆媳关系的处理上发挥重要作用。事实上，公平虽然重要，但用情更重要。如果儿子不懂得这一点，往往让婆媳关系更加紧张。事实上，一个家庭的家教如何?都很大程度上体现在儿子的身上。儿子在婆媳关系中，既要做到公平待人，更要有情有义，关键还在于自身的智性和素养，特别自己的特殊角色来进行协调。
婚后生活中婆媳关系的六大规律
6、婆媳都刁蛮的婆媳关系往往不可救药。
婆媳关系很恶劣的家庭，一般的情况，往往家庭关系本身就不正常，这样的家庭，本来就不平静，现在多了个厉害的，自然，更是上档升级了。有些家庭，婆媳就算是分家过了，但依然不依不挠，相互视为仇敌。没事，整出点事，也要相互扔砖头，泼脏水，撒泼骂街，弄得远近不得安宁。这种家庭中的儿子自然也不会好到哪去，要么窝囊废，要么偏心眼，要么有性格缺陷。在婆媳关系中，亲一个疏一下，在处理事物中，不是添油加醋，就是坐山观虎斗，婆媳打架，自己乐得看“大戏”，打死哪个都能省心
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